What do you do if you don’t like a woman who is crushing on you?
firstly, if a babe likes you but you don’t like her back, there are three choices open to you.
Being liked by anyone you don’t like is a feeling that has historically been associated with women, although with the pressure on women to be more proactive when they’re attracted to men, this could be changing.
More women are emerging from their shells these days, firing their shots in the hopes of scoring big with men they like.
This can create a problem in which the woman’s attraction is one-sided and unrequited love flows from her to the man, who may be unsure of how to say no without breaking the woman’s heart or sounding like a jackass when expressing his disinterest.
Guys, if you ever find yourself caught in this delicate situation, here’s what to do:
1. Be truthful.
Are you uninterested in a woman who has a crush on you? Tell it as it is. It is infinitely preferable to make this clear from the outset. It’s the rational thing to do if you really aren’t interested in what she wants, even if it would crush her and make her feel bad.
2. There are no mixed signals
If you explicitly state that you are not interested in dating her, then let your acts represent that.
If you plan to be friends, make sure you remain within the boundaries of friendship and avoid something that might be misconstrued as a willingness to be more than friends.
There should be no vague signs here.
3. Get out of there.
If you think you’re too drawn to her for a friendship to function without turning into a romantic relationship, get out of there as soon as possible.
Here’s why: just because you don’t want to be in a serious relationship with a woman doesn’t mean you won’t be attracted to her sexually.
Furthermore, and becoming friends with someone attractive who obviously likes you increases your chances of getting carried away to the point of seeking that sexual relationship.
If you start having sex with her while not wanting to be in a relationship, you’re simply exploiting her because she’s clearly interested in more than sex, and she’s already told you that.